for me, since i first started usin the internet, i always involved with groups chatters and break a fight due to a particular issue...and it does gave me a lot of thinking and arguing...
this is called 'healthy arguments'...
gaduh la giler babi and juz say wutever hell was in ur mind tyme tu n aftrward we came up with a conclusion...
zero hard feelings (^-^)>
however, many of them NOW dont seem to hav the guts involved with this so-called healthy arguments...
they are too fragile and even a single defensive word cn turn the table upside down to a major crisis...i mean...duhhh~~
cnt u juz put aside the sensitivity juz to gain tht input from the other party...
the best thing bout healthy argument; is the upmost quality tyme when you listen and able share ur opinion and belief.
its nt about winning the game or a serious debate bubbles but its about widen ur intelectual perceptive of life...and juz hope both party to gain mutual benefits from it...
and during the moment, true identity were revealed one by one and people cn now see ur way of thinkin towards an issue...
its a good way to brushen up ur personality~
hihihi ^^
the best way to end might probably be a friendly handshake or a hug...hehehe~
wat i really do hope from people:
1. do not be too sensitive with wat people say coz sum might be the right word for you to improve yourself
2. accept comments openly
3. a fight= take it as sumthin positive...
haa! tgk tu...diorg gadoh2 jer at the beginnin of the story and now theyre BEST FREN~ (^-^)d coz when they argue, they didnt realize tht they indirectly gain mutual understanding...hiihihi XDp/s: pagi2 dh pikir serious issue...hahahaa XD
~the end~
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